Off to Island Eddy for a barby!
Coming alongside at Morans of the Weir for lunch
We sail regularly with our three children, ages 1, 7, and 10. The normal routine is that the two older kids barricade themselves into the v berth forward and have a long wrestling match. Sometimes they will do something useful, if we succeed in making it interesting – keeping an eye out to leeward for a pot marker can be really useful sometimes! Laoise our eldest will helm and hold a compass course for a short period which is great if you want to pop down below for whatever reason. Most importantly they enjoy it, it gets them away from the TV, and we do things as a family where we put the emphasis on everyone being a good team player.
Ruairi our seven year old is great at depth watching on the speed depth log and will sing out whenever depth begins to shallow.
A general rule is that all children stay in the cockpit with lifejackets on. If they go down below, lifejackets can come off. They are not allowed stand at the stern or to go forward without permission. Often with another adult crew on board they will sit together on the coachroof and tell yarns and chit chat – enjoying themselves. They are well used to the motion of a boat and at this stage they really enjoy a brisk sail in say a F4 or F5 rather than a glide along without any heeling.
In bad weather, Louise will bring them below and get them colouring or reading in the main cabin. We say to ourselves we should keep the trips short so they will enjoy them, but honestly as long as a plannned sail is not conflicting with some other important social event on their calendar, (eg horse riding!) they don’t mind. As with any crew the skipper needs to display competence (most of the time!) so that they can relax and feel safe on board.
Kids just wanna have fun!
Sometimes we just take a spin out into the bay and go fishing for a few hours – often with a half dozen kids on board. They don’t need to go too far to enjoy themselves particularly if they are new to sailing and boats. Lots of eats and treats and it is almost as good as a birthday party!
Yachting Monthly have a discussion group on their site for people who sail with kids you can access it here
Going fishing July 08
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